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If you’ve ever wondered how to turn a girl on over text, read what follows very carefully…
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I’m going to share with you 18 good examples of texts to turn a girl on…
You can use one or several of these text messages to turn on a woman you want to bed.
You can use these texts as SMS, as messages on a chat program, as e-mails…there are many possibilities.
If you do it well, the girl might even invite you to join her at her home in order to seal the deal and release the sexual tension you’ll have created through your messages.
How to turn a girl on over text—here is the key:
The key to turn a girl on with texts is to show audacity…
While at the same time showing enough social intelligence so the girl sees your audacious messages as acceptable.
You are a strong and powerful man who isn’t afraid to express his desires.
You’re not ashamed of finding a woman attractive and to declare it to her.
But there’s more…
You also have a choice.
You have a choice of the women you wish to date or bed.
As a result, if a girl rejects your advances, it doesn’t affect you that much.
Some of the texts you’re going to discover below are (very) bold.
And that’s precisely why they are so effective.
What you need to understand, though, is that you’re not going to send these bold messages from the outset.
You’re not going to send these bold messages up front.
First, you’re going to heat things up, so that your bold sext messages be well received.
By proceeding in this manner, the girl will get easily turned on and might even outpace you in your suggestive messages.
Some of the texts below can be sent in a row (especially the first ones). Others can be combined.
Let’s go:
1. A first arousing text message:
Let’s start out gently with a first text you can send to a girl you just met.
“It was nice meeting you, I can’t help thinking about your dress…I couldn’t really concentrate on my work today, you have a bad influence on me young lady! ;)”
A great text to initiate the text conversation with a girl you approached earlier in the day.
By reminding her that you find her attractive, you charge the interaction with sexual energy right away.
2. A text to test her availability:
If she is alone, she’s potentially available for sexting.
Thus, you can start turning her on by sending her sexy texts:
– You:“Are you alone?”
– Her:“Yes”
– You:“Hmmm I wish I could be here with you”
On the other hand, if she’s not alone, you’ll have to postpone the sexting:
– You:“Are you alone?”
– Her:“No”
Important note:
The best time of the day to turn a girl on over text is in the evening, rather late.
Because at this time of the day, the chances are high that the girl is alone and that she isn’t really busy.
Thus, she is available to exchange messages with you and get turned on (and possibly touch herself).
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On the other hand, if she is at work, in class, or with friends, you won’t get the same results.
What’s more, if she’s not alone, you won’t be able to implement some of the techniques we’re going to see below.
So keep in mind that the best time of the day to send sexts to a girl is the evening, during the week (during the weekend she’s likely to be busy with friends).
3. A text to feel her out:
– You:“What are you doing?”
– Her:“Just screwing around on Facebook.”
– You:“What are you doing?”
– Her:“Nothing special, just lying on my bed.”
Basically if she answers you that she’s just screwing around, that she isn’t doing anything special, that she’s reading, or that she’s “trying” to study, it’s all good.
Indeed, if she’s alone and has the time to send you some texts, she’s available.
4. What is she wearing?
– You:“What are you wearing?”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“Hmmm you must look very sexy right now”
A great question to ask her late in the evening, when she’s likely to be in scantily clad or light clothing.
It allows you to naturally heat things up.
You can even ask for a picture of her on the spot and then start to exchange pics that will get hotter and hotter.
– You:“Send me a picture.”
– Her:*she sends you a picture*
– You:“Hmmm, very sexy.”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“Let me see what’s under these leggings” / “Let me see what is under this top”
– Her:“Haha not so fast :p”
– You:“I’m waiting.”
– Her:“And why am I the only one to send pics??”
– You:“All right you deserved a little pic of me.”
– You:*you send a picture of you*
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“I’m waiting for the pic.”
– Her:*she sends you a hotter pic*
And so it goes.
If the girl isn’t yet on her bed and/or isn’t dressed in light clothing, you can phrase the question this way:
– You:“What do you wear when going to bed?”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“Thong or panties?”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“What color?”
– Her:Blablabla…
5. In what clothes she feels most sexy?
– You:“What are the clothes you feel the most sexy in?”
– Her:“Hmmm nighties…”
– You:“Interesting…”
– Her:“Tight-fitting dress as well.”
– You:“Indeed you must be pretty hot in this kind of dress…”
An easy question that allows you to heat things up by sexualizing the conversation afterwards.
You suggest how sexy she might be when dressed that way.
And this way, she is going to get aroused.
By feeling desired and attractive in your eyes, she’s going to get hooked and become hornier and hornier.
6. Cuddles:
– You:“Do you like cuddles?”
– Her:“It depends on my mood, but when the time is right, yes.”
– You:“Who do you like to cuddle with the most?”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“How does it make you feel?”
A question that allows you to make her feel things she would feel during a cuddle by using her imagination.
This way, she’s going to start to feel relaxed and then progressively turned on by those imagined sensations.
7. Has she ever been groped discreetly?
– You:“Have you ever been groped or touched discreetly by a man in a club or in a crowded place?”
– Her:“Hmmm it happened”
– You:“Tell me more”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“I’m jealous of him ;)”
A great question to create sexual tension.
Women usually remember the times when they get groped or touched, even when it was by accident.
8. Her secret technique to turn on a man:
– You:“What is your secret technique to turn a man on?” / “What’s your favorite way of arousing a man you like?”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“Not bad.”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“I don’t know if that would work for me. Tell me more, I need more details ;)”
By asking this question, you get the girl to visualize what she would do to arouse a man.
As a result, she’s going to condition herself to get horny, all by herself.
And the more vividly she’s going to visualize what she would do—or the more she thinks about it—the more she’s going to get turned on (and the more she’s going to qualify herself by trying to show you how skilled she is).
That’s why it’s a great text to turn on a girl.
9. Does she easily let go when she’s horny?
– You:“Have you ever kissed a guy just because you were in the heat of the moment?”
– Her:“Hmmm that happened”
If she gives you a positive answer, it means that she can easily let go when she’s aroused, meaning that it will be easy for you to bed her just by making her feel the right emotions.
10. A text to feel her out (advanced level):
– You:“If a guy offered to come to your place right now to kiss you, would that make your horny?”
If she gives you a positive answer, it’s a clear sign that you can go to her place and seal the deal.
If she gives you a negative answer (or she answers you in an evasive way), you should heat things up a little more before taking this to the next step.
By phrasing the question in the third person (thus without directly involving you), the girl will feel more comfortable and will be more likely to let go.
Why?
Because she’s less likely to look like a pushover or a whore by giving you a positive answer.
11. The first body part she looks at in a man:
– You:“What is the first body part you look at in a man below the shoulders?”
This question can make a girl horny by getting her to visualize a man’s body and especially what she would look at first (in other words, she will visualize the body part that would turn her on the most).
Following the girl’s reply, you can ask her why she would look at this body part first.
You can ask her what she finds so arousing in this body part.
And so on.
She may ask you the same question by asking you what is the first thing you look at in a girl:
In that case, go straight to the point.
Your goal is to sexualize the conversation in a strong and masculine way.
Answer her by mentioning a body part that has sexual connotations: for instance, her breasts, her buttocks, her lips (it will actually depend on the body of the girl you’re texting: if she has big breasts, you can tell her that breasts are the first thing you look at; if she has a nice ass, you can tell her that the buttocks are the first thing you look at, and so on).
The goal here is to get the girl to feel desired and beautiful in your eyes.
This is how you’re going to make her really horny.
12. Does she prefer briefs or boxers?
– You:“Do you prefer briefs or boxers?”
– Her:“Boxers / Briefs” (in most cases, she’ll tell you that she prefers boxers)
Then, regardless of her answer, text her what you’re wearing.
– You:“Right now I’m wearing boxers”
The goal of this question is to get the girl to visualize your private parts, which is going to make her think about sex and thus make her horny.
Her answer doesn’t really matter.
13. The area of her body that is the most erogenous:
– You:“If there was only one area of your body a man should touch to make you horny, which one would it be?”
A straightforward question that directly leads the girl to think about sex.
So a great question to use to turn a girl on.
If she gives you a honest answer, it’s a sign she’s already turned on.
14. What must a man do to make her wet:
– You:“What must a man do to make you wet?”
– Her:“Hmmm…touching me, caressing some areas of my body…”
Then you use the previous question to encourage her to expand on her answer and thus make her even hornier.
That’s a powerful question to turn a girl on over text.
15. Can a massage make her wet?
Good to know: a nice full body massage makes most women horny.
Hence our interest in making her think about it.
– You:“Can a massage make you wet?”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“For the record, I was tops in massage.”
– Her:Blablabla…
– You:“I would love to give you a nice massage. And don’t worry: I now know that massages make you wet, so I’ll dwell on your erogenous zones.”
Audacious and arousing.
That’s great if you want to build sexual tension and heat things up fast.
16. The accidental kiss:
– You:“If I happened to kiss your lips by accident when kissing you goodbye, would you have a problem with it?”
A question which allows you to get the girl to picture you kissing her on the lips.
So a great question to turn on a girl you like.
17. Oral sex:
– You:“Do you prefer when it’s the guy who takes care of you or when it’s you who takes care of the guy?”
– Her:“Hmmm I like to take care of guys”
– You:“And I like being taken care of”
If you’ve reached a point where the girl is already horny, you can use more explicit language:
– You:“Which do you prefer: sucking or being licked?”
Whatever her answer is, reply in such a way to be complementary with her:
If she answers you that she prefers to suck, tell her that you like to be sucked.
And if she answers you that she prefers to be licked, tell her that you like to lick.
18. If I whispered these questions in your ear…
– You:“If I whispered all these questions in your ear, would it make you horny?”
If you already asked her some of those questions, the girl is obviously already aroused.
What is great about this question is that it leads the girl to verbalize the fact that it makes her horny, which is going to make her even hornier.
If you enjoyed this article (and even if you didn’t), you’ll love this other extensive post I recently published:
=> Be DOMINANT with Women: Know How to MASTER Them (In Everyday Life) to Make Them Fantasize About You
There’s something you need to understand:
Women want to be submissive.
They fantasize about sexual submission.
And when they meet a dominant man who has the potential to satisfy their submission fantasies, it makes them desire him intensely.
Sounds shocking or surprising to you?
Keep reading…
Today, you’re going to learn how to master women in a way that will turn them on.
You’re going to learn how to dominate women to make them wet with desire.
And NOT just in bed:
You’re going to implement this in other contexts and environments, be it after an approach, on a date, at a party, and more.
You’re going to implement this in your everyday life with the women you like so that they see you as a powerful dominant male who is able to satisfy their desires and take them to seventh heaven.
These actions you’re going to implement daily with the girls you want will lead them to see you as THE man to date.
You’ll stand out.
Women will see you as a potential lover and as a good lay (and that’s a bit of an understatement).
However, there are things you need to understand first.
You’ve got to be ready to try certain things that are a bit bold (more or less depending on the girl and the situation).
It's all there:
=> Be DOMINANT with Women: Know How to MASTER Them (In Everyday Life) to Make Them Fantasize About You
Stay solid,
Jack
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So, do you want to know how to really please a man in his 50s in between the sheets? Here are seven things men in mid-life are looking for sexually:
A lover who is confident in bed.
Ask any man of any age, and they’ll tell you just how sexy it is when a woman is sexually confident. Men appreciate a woman who understands her own sexuality and for good reason. “Older men want someone who is comfortable in her own skin and who isn’t afraid to be intimate,” says licensed sex and marriage therapist, Dr. Kat Van Kirk. Most men over 50 know that a woman’s body and hormones change as she ages, so don’t feel so self-conscience about every little wrinkle, dimple, or freckle, Van Kirk adds.
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A lover who can communicate in bed.
We know that communication is key in all types of relationships. And it’s no different for older men—what 50-year-old men want in bed is women who aren’t afraid to tell them what they want. “An older guy finds it sexy when a woman knows her own body and can communicate her needs without feeling shy or uncomfortable about how to make her body work and how he can give her pleasure,” says board certified sexologist and author of, Getting the Sex You Want, Dr. Tammy Nelson. Van Kirk adds that, most men in their 50s have had enough partners that they know not every trick works for every woman. So, give your 50-year-old lover a bit of your owner’s manual.
A lover who is spontaneous.
Surprises are the way to go with men in their 50s. “Trying to plan a perfect evening whenever the stars align is often too much pressure with all those other work obligations. However, many of these men are happy to make things happen on a dime,” says Van Kirk. That goes for sex, too. After having sex for 30 years, men in their 50s can get bored with the same old every night. The experts advise mixing up sexual positions, locations, and even the time of the day you do it.
A lover he knows he can satisfy.
A man’s number one sexual need is to please their partner. Therefore, it’s important that you let him know just how pleased you are. “When a man is his 50s, he wants to be with a woman who he knows he can satisfy because she will let him know. He doesn’t want to be with a woman who will fake orgasms or pleasure, or who will spend all her time just trying to make him happy in bed,” says Nelson. In other words, when he knows his woman is satisfied, it makes him feel powerful and competent in bed.
More than “just sex”.
What 50-year-old men want in bed, is women who aren’t in a hurry to get to the main attraction. These men know there’s a lot more to the bedroom besides just having sex. And, just because they’re older, doesn’t mean they don’t appreciate oral. “Masturbation and intimate touching is still important to the over-50 club,” says Van Kirk. He wants to please you and takes great pleasure in making sure that happens, whether it comes from intercourse, touching, or cuddling. So, take some time to really kiss and touch each other before jumping into sex.
A lover, not a mother or child.
While men appreciate the sweet and caring things you do for them, men in their 50s are looking for someone to be intimate with, not a woman to mother them. The experts agree that men in mid-life want a woman who is a partner, not a parent. That means showing independence, confidence, passion, and compassion. By now, they’ve lived long enough to know how to take care of themselves. And, on the flip side, by now they’ve either raised children or decided they didn’t want any, so leave the cutesy, childish stuff at the bedroom door.
Positive reinforcement.
Men in their 50s know that they might not be as virile and energetic in the sack as they once were. Because of this, a little pat on the back is appreciated. If an older gentleman is making you feel good, don’t be shy about it, be loud and clear that what he’s doing makes you feel sensational. Many older—and even younger—men would agree that telling a man what feels good is a turn-on. Telling him what he’s doing wrong is not. And if you’re shy about verbalizing your erotic emotions, moaning and groaning is just as effective.
Remember, what 50-year-old men want in bed is different from what younger men expect. They’re more experienced, a little bit older and a little bit wiser, and have a better idea of what they want and what they enjoy. Like in other aspects of a relationship, as you grow older you have a better idea of what does and doesn’t work for you. Listen to your partner, speak to him about what you want, and find your way together. He’ll appreciate it, and so will you.
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